and the answer is most of the men don’t dance because:
- they simply don’t know how; dance is a learned skill
- they are wimps, zero confidence
- they are brainwashed “real mend don’t dance” (in fact they do, and always did since the humanity exists)

and by dance I mean real social dances, like salsa, tango, swing, etc.
real men WON’T make fools of themselves with crap like “club dancing”; they will go dance real dances in salsa clubs, swing parties or tango milongas.

Anyway, Matt, you are so gorgeous that if you weren’t married, I’d say you could dance like a duck at my place any time!